Important new study: Don't just try to imagine that you are the other person, ask them questions.

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William Berkson

This important study conducted jointly in the U.S. and Israel shows that to "arrive in the other person's place," as Hillel urges us to do before making judgments, trying to imagine what the other person is thinking is not very effective. Asking the other person questions is much more effective for understanding what they actually think and feel: read the article here and download the study fromAPAlogo.png